Desis need to start socially ostracising men who hit their wives.
It is a sign of utmost beghayrti to allow a known wife-beater to enter your house, enjoy your friendship or eat from your table.
Don’t be a beghayrat.
ok i have a genuine question… how do some of u afford concert tickets, flights and hotels? like what job allows u to do all that bc that seems impossible to me since i can’t even afford to take a day off from work I NEED TO KNOW
My aunt got married at twenty-one because everyone said it was “the right time.” She didn’t hate her husband. She didn’t love him either. She just learned how to live with him.
She woke up early every day to cook, clean, and take care of everyone before herself. When she was tired, they called her lazy. When she was quiet, they called her cold. When she cried, they said she was being dramatic. So she stopped crying.
Instead, she started saving small pieces of herself in quiet ways. She read books late at night when everyone was asleep. She took online classes on her phone. She kept a notebook hidden in her drawer where she wrote the life she wished she had.
Years later, she helped her daughter apply to college in another city. She filled out every form, made every call, and cheered louder than anyone when the acceptance letter came. At the celebration, people praised her for being “such a good mother.”
But I knew the truth.
She didn’t just raise a daughter. She raised the version of herself she was never allowed to be.
sometimes it feels unfair watching people in other countries wake up to clean air, clear skies, safe water, and well maintained streets, while here we’re stuck breathing pollution, dodging potholes and fighting broken infrastructure just to get through the day
@ewnowayonearth People need to realise the truth behind influencer culture; none of them is buying those things, they’re marketing them. We should scroll through these videos as we simply do with youtube ads
“Oh but no one wishes men happy men’s day”… Men don't celebrate International Men's Day for the same reason Britain doesn't celebrate Independence Day: they never had to fight for their freedom. Hope this helps
My sister runs the whole house…kids, meals, everything while her husband works and is very successful. He’s super disciplined too: gym, yoga, perfect routine. But when my sister got sick for a few days, he had to take time off work to manage the house and kids. He even missed an international conference and a few work opportunities because he had to stay home. By day two he looked exhausted and completely overwhelmed. It made me wonder how many successful men are successful because someone else is quietly managing their life doing unpaid labour. And what women could achieve too… if they also had a wife at home.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.