accidentally watched this with hells kitchen playing in the background, salamander getting dragged and pushed around and saying "aw fuck me, fuck off."
The responses to this are deranged: either (a) “just don’t commit a crime”, which dodges the issue at hand, ignores the possibility of being held on remand, and also ignores the overall chilling effect on citizenship, or (b) “welcome to being a woman”, which they call “feminist”
Viewing someone as human means you accept that they’re messy, complex, and not infallible. Obviously you should make sure you’re not reinforcing stereotypes or oppressive systems, but also that you’re not infantilizing people by trying to be socially progressive. (3/3)