Seriously, get married and have a dual income household on time. The longer you postpone this, the harder it is to compound the benefits. It is the greatest middle-class hack to wealth. Forget all the stupid gender extremism here. Fall in love, get married, build together.
My guy in the UK 🇬🇧 is frustrated.
He just gave me a long call now.
His wife gave birth 5 months ago and hasn’t returned to work, saying she’s still healing.
Oya nau, while at home, go for remote jobs to support the family she ignores that option.
Rather she focuses on "content creation" on TikTok that isn’t paying, while he carries all the bills alone, plus a ₦350k monthly allowance for his mother-in-law.
Now this same mother-in-law is threatening him for “pressuring” her daughter to work, while she's still nursing a baby.
She even declines the suggestion of GP appointments to really confirm her health status. Saying she just needs some time.
He's so confused at the moment because he sees other women that gave birth in the same UK, and they resume work after 3-6weeks while arranging a nanny to take over.
All the house bills are currently on him, and his wife isn't making life any easy because he doesn't even know when she tends to get back to normal work.
All she keeps telling him is "give me more time to heal"...
I hear you, but I look at it differently.
Even in the Bible, some were healed and some were not, yet the power remained real. A miracle isn't a debt God owes; it’s a gift.
The fact that he didn't make it doesn't invalidate the thousands who did.
It just reminds us that we don't control the 'when' or 'why' of life and death, even with prayer."
PTSD man, fvcking PTSD!
I battled with this sh!t for years, till I had a surgery done. Terrible experience!
Idk who needs to hear this, but you have no business taking your phone to the toilet. Go in there, do your thing and leave ASAP.
Do not leave your ass open-sitting in the toilet for too long!!!
Your dressing is off and you should do better. There are rules guiding corporate outfits for the male gender.
Rule 1. Shoe and belt color rules
- Next time, when you wear a brown shoe, make sure the color of your shoe matches with the color of your belt.
- If your shoe is shiny, the belt should be too. If you are wearing a suede shoe, the belt should be a suede belt too.
Rule 2: Shirts and pants combination rules
- You should note that a contrast between your shirt and pants is needed. A light shirt with dark trousers is preferable.
- Again, if you are wearing a patterned shirt, pair it with solid pants (non-patterned) and vice versa.
- Your trouser is too long, it is meant to sit at the right point on the waist, with a slight "break" (where the pant meets the shoe) and no excessive length.
Rule 3: Tie Rule.
- The tip of your tie should reach the top of your belt buckle. No longer, not lower. You look like a primary school kid with that.
- If you are wearing a solid tie, you should pair it with a patterned shirt and vice versa
- Your tie should always be a darker shade of your shirt so that it stands out.
You are welcome, Talented.🫰
The last thing you should ever do as a non-Catholic is challenge Catholics with the Bible.
We didn’t borrow the Bible from you. We gave you the Bible you use.
The canon you quote, the Scriptures you argue with, were preserved, compiled, and handed down by the Catholic Church.
Valentine’s Day, Easter, Christmas, even the roots of what you now call Halloween, all trace back to Catholic history and tradition.
You don’t get to celebrate Easter whenever you like. The date is fixed by rules established by the Church.
Without that authority, there is no universal Easter.
The Gregorian calendar you use today, yes, the one that orders your days, months, and years, exists because of Pope Gregory XIII, acting through the Catholic Church you love to insult.
So let’s be clear: Catholics are not confused, not defensive, and not seeking approval.
Again, I repeat, WE ARE NOT YOUR MATES.
Ave Maria!
Thank you lord for free will o
Like I will join this night and more nights and I’ll still be a Catholic till I die.
I’ll praise God by 12am during this lent, and he will still be my God.
Thank You Jesus.