There is a lot of luck invovled with finding a spouse, particularly one worthy of having children with, so I side-eye pretty much all comments looking down on those who haven't settled down. It's arrogant and shows a lack of self-awareness.
You ppl should keep lying to yourself that religious leaders do not control their members.
A whole generation of Deeperlifers didn't watch TV for years because their G.O said so.
Witnesses are dying every other day because their doctrine do not allow blood transfusion. LOL
God is about to send you somebody who actually likes you loudly, loves you intentionally, communicates maturely, and reassures you without acting irritated. No more relationships where you have to beg for effort while carrying the entire emotional weight alone. After all the fake love, breadcrumbing, and confusion, your next relationship is going to feel like Heaven. You won’t have to wonder where you stand. You won’t have to shrink to be chosen. You won’t have to decode mixed signals. You won’t have to overwork for bare minimum love. God is healing your heart so you stop calling survival “love.” What’s coming next will feel safe, mutual, peaceful, consistent, and prayed for.
In this life, choose a CALM man. A man who will also be calm & generous with your heart, mood swings & insecurities. It's never just about the money >>
Disturb me.
Update me.
Get upset if I do something dumb.
Show your jealous side.
Yap non stop.
Spam me with photos/texts.
Tell me how your daywent.
Show me your fit
Call/FT me anytime
Send those insta reels
I love the little things.
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Girl to girl:
You’re going to cry the day you realize you cannot love someone into emotional maturity. You’ll explain, beg, communicate, forgive, and try to understand them for so long… only to realize you’ve been carrying the entire relationship by yourself.
It will hit you the day you casually stop communicating and realize they never even cared enough to ask why.
Colon (:) introduces something. You usually use it when what comes after is a list, or an explanation, or even a reveal.
An example is “she had one rule: never apologize” or “this is a list of things you should get from the market: eggs, tomatoes…”
It’s also used as the eyes in a smiley face :)
Semicolon (;) connects two complete thoughts that are related but could stand alone as separate sentences. It’s stronger than a comma but softer than a full stop.
An example is “Frank never apologized; he didn't think he was wrong”
It’s also used as the eyes in a winking face ;)
A semicolon is used instead of a comma and a coordinating conjunction (for, and, nor, but, or, yet, so -- remember FANBOYS)
Instead of:
I like coffee, but I don't drink it every day.
you can write:
I like coffee; I don't drink it every day.
The reason the answer surprised him is simple: High BP is a chronic threat, but Low BP is an immediate catastrophe.
In medicine, we triage by the clock.
• High BP (Hypertension): The "Silent Killer." It damages your vessels and organs over decades. It leads to strokes and heart failure, but your body can tolerate a high reading for days without immediate collapse.
• Low BP (Hypotension/Shock): The "Loud Killer." If your blood pressure drops too low, your Mean Arterial Pressure (MAP) falls below the threshold required to push blood into your brain, heart, and kidneys.
Without that pressure, your organs don't just get sick..they start to die within minutes due to hypoperfusion.
In the ER, we can wait to treat a BP of 180/100, but a BP of 70/40 is a "Code Blue" level emergency.
If you found this clinical pearl useful, make sure to Follow me for more insights from the frontlines of Internal Medicine. Next I will write about Diabetes.
Until you learn contentment, you can’t truly be in love or stay committed.
There will always be someone who seems more attractive, wealthier, more exciting, or easier to be with than your partner. But if you’re constantly chasing “better,” you’ll never appreciate what you already have.
A lack of contentment will always leave you looking elsewhere.
1. Men know exactly what they are doing. Always remember that.
2. It is not your responsibility to change a man. In fact, you cannot change a man, but you can change the man. Read that again.
3. Men will treat you based on how they feel about you and how you carry yourself. If he’s not treating you with care, he doesn’t like you. Don’t make excuses for him.
4. No man can go a day without talking to a woman he is in love with.
5. An inconsistent man doesn’t like you. Only showing up when it is convenient for him is a red flag 🚩
6. There is no such thing as a nonchalant man. That man doesn’t like you. He’s “chalanting” elsewhere.
7. If a man cheats on you and you find out, and instead of leaving the relationship you choose to stay, he will start seeing you as a foól.
8. Your self-respect must be greater than your feelings and libido. Do not ever beg a man to love you. Begging is disgusting.
9. Men are very thoughtful when they are in love. They make time, plan things, and put effort where their heart is. A low-effort man doesn’t like you.
10. The highest form of love is consideration. Any man who doesn’t consider you, how his actions make you feel, or how to make your life easier within his capacity doesn’t like you. Walk away.
11. Lastly, you accept the love you think you deserve. However a man treats you, if you stay, you are a willing participant, not a victim. If you think you deserve better, you know exactly what to do.
There’s this 45 minutes favor provoking prayers by Apostle Selman on YouTube.
If you can pray it, please do!
I prayed it in a difficult season of my life for like a month and there was a shift. A lot of doors opened.