🥀Venus🥀

A suburban queer. Aquarius ☀️ Capricorn 🌅 Taurus 🌙 they/them

[🥀Venus🥀 @ItsAMeV]

I’m really on twitter today huh

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Update: Actually, reader, he was an ass :(

[🥀Venus🥀 @ItsAMeV]

I have never had a new years kiss, but last night I kissed both my boyfriends as we walked through the door of our favorite karaoke bar to a fanfare of "Happy New Year" and became the first customers of the year. Then I killed Memory from CATS. It was absolutely perfect.

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Technically one of those boyfriends is not my boyfriend, but he disappeared before he broke up with me (unwell not an ass) and while we are reconnecting he is SECRETLY my boyfriend still. I will tell him as much when im sure he wants that.

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Update: (27.75) I’ll probably just raise other peoples kids in some way or another!

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Me @ 21: Why would I have kids? Then Id have to be on a schedule?

Me @ ~27: I could really use some structure to my life....

(Also I realized people who have kids enjoy the whole raising them part. I just didn't know based off my experience of having parents)

[🥀Venus🥀 @ItsAMeV]

To be clear several people in my life have called bullshit on my anti-kid stance since my teenage years. Not like my mom or grandma, but all my exes. They were correct, but I wonder why I felt like I had to be that way...

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As someone born in 1997 my generational identity is along the lines of: I’m a founding member and the entire organization went off the rails so I've resigned.

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Partner just alerted me to what an episiotomy is and how often it happens (often without consent or warning) and I am horrified

[erica @ericanextdooor]

oh you like nyc? name every rat

[The Mel Jar by Sylvia Lacan @the_mel_jar]

Sometimes you’ll hear someone complaining about someone else’s narcissism and not only will you see that the complaining person is themselves exhibiting narcissistic behavior, you’ll also see that what’s considered healthy vs. unhealthy can be based on how much you like someone.

[🥀Venus🥀 @ItsAMeV]

Also she did it TWICE because we didn't respond the first time and then doubled down when bf told her we were asleep. BITCH WHAT MUSIC?? IS IT IN THE ROOM WITH US RIGHT NOW? CAUSE I SURE DIDN'T HEAR ANYTHING

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I'm really glad my neighbor had the kind of parents who make you confident enough to pound on your sleeping neighbor's apartment door and tell them to turn down their music when you can't hear anything standing directly outside of it. Good for you and your delusional grandeur!

[🥀Venus🥀 @ItsAMeV]

Like bitch I fell asleep for the first time in days and you pound on the door at 2 am (one of my main paranoia triggers) and now I get to be up all night when you could've paused for 2 seconds directly outside my door and thought hmm this apartment is dead silent actually

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@popphits But NO ONE is ready for my speech on how CATS is a musical for abused and neglected children

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@popphits Now imagine you're me and you have to explain to someone that yes you are a capable artist with a BFA and yes your favorite musical is still CATS. All Ive gotta say is you can take the kid outta the abuse, but you cant take the abuse out of the kid

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@communoah As someone whose only ever going to be socially transitioning I appreciate this take.

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@clhubes Im a childless 26 year old and I have been working on it since july

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@mariamainmo I believe due to my depressive episodes I have already boosted my numbers to at least 44%

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@poetickate All I know is the first person to bring me flowers apropos of nothing is the safest person I know, the love of my life and hasn't left my side since our second date. So I say yes probably!

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@formerlyphread *unsafe

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@formerlyphread I can imagine this event was majorly upsetting to you, I'm not trying to discount that-- but in my understanding trauma is centered around being made to feel safe and powerless by another person or a force of nature. That may have been what you felt so it may have been trauma!