@AsakyGRN All these 50/50 convo, what happened to husband and wife pooling resources together, pay bills, keep some pocket money aside, and invest the rest in the family’s name? Which kind marriage Una Dey practice?
The kidnapped students and their teachers are going to spend another night in that forest again 💔💔💔💔💔
THIS IS THE SIXTH NIGHT 😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Please Do something @oyostategovt@seyimakinde 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My former Landlord wants to take all my deposit.
In the UK 🇬🇧, you pay holding deposit before you rent a house.
So she wants to collect all my £1310 , I told her I always win 🏆 and I won, I’m so happy.
She said she wan use my money redecorate house (£6700). The DPS (agency that did the case) in the UK 🇬🇧 gave her just £50 for redecorating. DPS had other ideas.
The money might be a small money, but I go use am do something else.
Some UK landlords are wicked.
No landlord has EVER taken my holding deposits in the UK
Congratulations 🙌 to me and my family.
How come non of them realized on time.
I almost experienced something similar sometime ago at the gym, God helped me that day through my younger brother. He quickly got me SOSA DRINK (1 liter), to drink.
I was experiencing some emotional distress that period and was going to the gym daily spending 2-3hrs in each session.
My body was drained of energy and sugar.
It could be fatal if not attended to on time.
He should have beckon on someone to express how his body was doing him….in my case, I quickly asked that my brother be called and that was how God helped me.
Let’s learn from this my experience and this guy’s own, always try to reach out to someone when you feel somehow.
CALL FOR HELP ON TIME!!!
@jon_d_doee @ShidoOnireason I keep saying this …. Why live in worries or boring life when you can just die any second… plus always keep a bottle of water when you work out and don’t over do it .. mehn 🤦��♀️
Only him had used deep poverty to cure problems
Fuel queues — gone. because he took fuel drive from 160 to 1400 in just 3 years. Let’s see if your father can afford it let alone queue for it
ASUU strikes — gone. He captured the agency, dissolved all bodies, took away educational fundings. Within 3 years, most schools had more than 300% increase in school fees. Poor man dropping from school. Yet no one could speak for them because he destroyed all the agencies that can speak before hitting them with pain
State bankruptcies — Worsening. We just kept borrowing more and more WITH NO RESULT. Before, if govt borrows, they’ll try to do something for citizens before stealing the rest. This one steals with impunity. Award 3.3 trillion to power (the same) project 3 times in 3 years with nothing better.
Electricity — people now pay more than 300% increase for the same uselessness. An average Nigeria can’t even guarantee a 12 hour electricity in a day. With all the money said to have been pumped in this sector. This is a big shame.
Insecurity — Worse than ever before. Now police don’t even interfere in kidnapping again. They just ask you to pay ransom.
Private sector exits — Worsened. Almost all companies had exited Nigeria
NGX decline — Naira had gone all time low. He took it from about 400 to 1400. More than 300% decrease
Food inflation — so bad than a Tiber of yam has to be cut in slices for Nigerians to be able to afford it.
I didn’t even know how much of a failure this man is until I realized you didn’t even have anything good he did to campaign.
This is the Worst President ever in the history of Nigeria. We all should be angry and ensure he doesn’t see that sit again
Many years ago, I landed in a new country with just $600 and a head full of hope. No guarantees. Just faith.
Two weeks in, reality hit hard. My host that I was supposed to stay with till I get myself together chased me out. No warning, no backup plan. Just like that, I was outside, trying to figure out my next move.
Someone told me to go to meet his cousin in New York who could help. I went. I waited at the train station… hours passed… then night came. The person never showed up, and stopped picking my calls.
That moment could have broken me.
But I refused to fold.
I took myself back by bus to Maryland, got a hotel for a few days, and sat down to restructure my life. I really don’t understand how the system really works. People were just telling me to go to Craigslist and search for jobs.
But I needed an accommodation at least. I couldn’t afford to stay in the Hotel for more days.
I finally thought of a friend whose Dad lives here. I spoke to him and he linked me up with his Dad who then linked me to someone from Ekiti State who decided to accomodate me. A complete stranger who showed me kindness when I needed it the most. He gave me a place to stay till I got back on my feet.
From there, things started to shift.
I got my driver’s license. I got a job in a restaurant. I started building step by step, no shortcuts.
And this picture?
This is the first car I bought just 7 months into the journey. Not for luxury, but because commuting to work was a struggle I needed to overcome.
Fast forward to today, I have own better cars, what I made in an entire month back then, I now make more than double of that in just one week. I’m in the category of people who make 6 figures annually in this country. All Glory be to God.
If you’re in a hard place right now, hear this you’re not stuck, you’re just in the middle of your story. Keep pushing.
Please keep the two F-15 pilots who were shot down in your prayers tonight.
One of my sons is a fighter pilot, and I still haven’t heard any news from him or his unit. My heart is heavy with worry. Please pray for all the pilots and their families. 🙏
Marriage is not supposed to be a “his bills, her bills” arrangement. Especially abroad.
Once you marry, both of you should stop thinking like flatmates doing cost sharing and start thinking like a family building one future.
The real conversation is not 50/50, 70/30, or “leave rent for him.”
It should be... what is our total income? What are our total needs? What is our budget? What are we saving? What are we investing?
A healthy home is not built on divided responsibility.
A healthy home is built on shared vision.
When couples keep saying “this one is for him” and “this one is for her,” they may survive, but they rarely build wealth as one unit.
Learn now or learn the hard way. You are both healing in different directions.
If you’re in the UK and you earn £2,600 monthly and your partner earns £2,200 monthly, the family income is £4,800. Drop
That Odogwu nonsense in your village.
Take £2k and sort your bills. You can support your families and friends with £500. You give each other £400 each and invest the balance of £1500 monthly.
You cannot have a working wife and all she is paying is water bill or WiFi. She is fundamentally useless. The whole point of 2 income household is that income from both parties sort family bills. We usually use UK for context so people can have sense, but this has nothing to do with location. It applies everywhere. If you earn N2m monthly and your partner earns N350k monthly, the family income is N2.350m, and the family bills would be sorted from there.
Anyone who says “do something, no matter how small” is an evil person. Nobody who says that has any intention of doing anything substantial or meaningful. It is psychology. They are simply saying that doing something small is better than doing nothing and they expect you to be grateful they did something. A family runs on “we are in this together.” You cannot exclude money in togetherness because you want to be a selfish prick with no regard for family wholeness!
Pastor Jerry Ezeh is praying for Jos people and Nigerians are all over his timeline abusing him.
Pastor Nathaniel Bassey is sending prayers and kind wishes to Jos people and Nigerians are all over his timeline abusing him.
Neither Pastor Jerry or Pastor Nath is your President or elected politicians. They’re spiritual leaders that will be praying and guiding the people spiritually. Nigerians should be more responsible and channel their anger to the right quarters.