It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. A woman feeds off of his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.
People with no car/don’t drive don’t realize how exhausting it is to link with them sometimes. Like AT THIS AGE, having to pick up, drop off, meet someone at their house, stop at the store rq every time and being the only driver is too much