There is also a conversation we need to have with Christian men.
Because some of you speak about women with an underhanded disdain that is deeply un-Christlike, then hide behind “biblical order” to justify it.
You cannot simply look at every Christian woman who resonates with feminism and dismiss her as rebellious. History has shown women have had reasons to fight. The Church is not entirely innocent in the abuse and silencing of women. We have sometimes weaponized Scripture instead of rightly dividing it.
Some women did not become angry because they hate God. They became angry because people used God against them.
There are women who have been talked down to, ignored, diminished, spiritually manipulated, and emotionally controlled in church spaces while men quoted “submission” at them like a threat.
And when women begin to push back against that, you cannot automatically label them rebellious without enough humility to ask:
“What exactly are they reacting to?”
Because even in Scripture, God did not condemn women who challenged systems.
The daughters of Zelophehad fought.
They contended.
They challenged a structure that disadvantaged them.
And God said:
“The daughters of Zelophehad speak right.” (Numbers 27:7)
Not rebellious.
Not dishonorable.
Not with the spirit of Jezebel…
Right.
Some of you need to realize that being male does not automatically make your interpretation superior.
Statements like:
“Woman was created later, therefore she is lesser,”
“Eve was deceived, therefore women are inferior,”
“Men are naturally superior because Adam came first,”
do not make you sound spiritually mature. They make you sound biblically unintelligent.
Genesis 1 says:
“Male and female created he them.”
God did not create woman as an afterthought. He had both genders in mind from the beginning.
And Genesis 2 is not about superiority.
It is about order.
Order does not mean value.
Christ and the Church have order.
The Father and the Son have order.
Order is not inferiority.
In fact, biblical leadership is not domination.
Christ never used His position to belittle the Church, He died for her.
So how did some Christian men become more arrogant than Christ?
You brandish submission like a weapon.
You speak about masculinity like it is superiority.
You talk about women as though leadership means lordship.
News flash, you are not a biblical male. You are carnally minded and we all know what that means.
To lead in our Kingdom is to serve. Where is your service?!
And if creation order is your argument for superiority, then goats should be greater than men because animals were created before Adam.
The logic collapses immediately.
The truth is many women are angry because they encountered distortion disguised as doctrine.
Male ego preached as theology.
Misogyny defended with proof texts.
And instead of constantly rushing to call women rebellious, maybe Christian men need enough self-awareness to ask:
“Have we represented Christ properly?”
Because many women are not rejecting Christ.
They are reacting to men who looked nothing like Him.
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SHE abide under the shadow of THE ALMIGHTY. SHE says of THE LORD, HE is HER refuge and HER fortress: HER GOD; in HIM SHE trust. Surely HE shall deliver HER from the snare of the fowler, And from the noisome pestilence. HE shall cover HER with HIS feathers, and under HIS wings shall SHE trust: HIS truth shall be HER shield and buckler. SHE shall not be afraid for the terror by night; Nor for the arrow that flieth by day; Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; Nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday. A thousand shall fall at HER side, and ten thousand at HER right hand; But it shall not come nigh HER. Only with HER eyes shall SHE behold And see the reward of the wicked. Because SHE has made the LORD, which is HER refuge, Even the most High, HER habitation; There shall no evil befall HER Neither shall any plague come nigh HER dwelling. For HE shall give HIS angels charge over HER To keep HER in all HER ways. They shall bear HER up in their hands, Lest SHE dash HER foot against a stone. SHE shalt tread upon the lion and adder: The young lion and the dragon shall SHE trample under feet. Because SHE has set HER love upon GOD, therefore will I GOD deliver HER: I will set HER on high, because SHE knows HIS name.SHE shall call upon I GOD and I will answer HER : I will be with HER in trouble; I will deliver HER , and honour HER. With long life will I satisfy HER , And shew HER my salvation.”
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3 main reasons ladies choose to remain with unfaithful and wicked fools.
1. Survival: I always tell ladies to have something important going on for themselves. Your entire life cannot depend on a man. I’m sorry. You MUST have something you’re doing that can take good care of you o! You cannot be truly interdependent if you’re not independent.
2. “What will people say?”
Dear Pelinda, your destiny is at stake and you’re considering public opinion?
Why are you basing your life on what people will say? People will “say” regardless. It’s better they’re not saying whatever they want to say at your graveyard! Get Up!
3. “I’ve come this far and given so much of myself”.
Ah!!! Get Down!!! You can rebuild your life. Don’t keep digging just because you’re now in a hole! I’m telling you that relationship will only get worse and you’ll be full of resentment! Get Up! Get Out!
It’s not easy o, but you can do it.
Find yourself again!
Let me add number 4. You stick with wicked fools because you have by your own hands chased away those who can tell you the truth and hold you accountable. It’s easier to remain with a manipulator and in toxic environments when you’ve silenced the voices of reason in your life. Run back to them! Those are the ones who truly love you! Humble yourself and go back to people to who genuinely care about you!
the fact that rape prevention advice is almost exclusively directed at women while men who rape are treated as an unavoidable force of nature is one of the most telling things about how society has chosen to address this problem.
That is not culture, let’s stop calling it that please. A group of misogynistic, degenerate men decided to organize harm and label it something acceptable and their evil offsprings kept upholding it. A calculated, wicked act carried out openly against women in a society that doesn’t care! 💔
People really underestimate the level of herd mentality that exists among men, especially when it comes to doing or allowing harm. Because even the ones not actively participating… what are they doing? Standing there recording, watching and stopping nothing. And somehow, they’ll still go home and think they’re “good men” because they didn’t directly do anything.
Misandry is women venting. Misogyny has institutions, laws, traditions and festivals behind it.
Misandry is like old women gossiping at the back of the church. Misogyny is what happened in Ozoro today.
One is a reaction while other is a system.
The “sample size” of men committing these horrific, barbaric crimes is far too large for the first response to always be “not all men.” It always has been. And that is exactly the problem.