Just seen a video where a girl said the real flex is training your mind to be stronger than your feelings and your boundaries to be strong than your empathy. At this point I clearly need that tatted on my forehead in bold print.
Marry the girl with the messy childhood. The one who has experienced tremendous suffering from those she loved, yet chose to heal and rebuild herself. She'll challenge you to do better and call you out on your BS, but she will love you and your children like nothing you've known.
I think my 🚩 is that, I never know how to talk about my feelings. I talk to myself in my head a lot about how I feel & I explain it so well, but getting it to actually come out my mouth is so hard.
Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be mindful of what others have going on and that is a flaw that I need to let go expeditiously!