Pour moi, si ta jamais connu la pire version de ton mec ou ta meuf et que la vie vous a jamais tabassée à deux pendant la relation, vous êtes juste en flirt ça durera jamais, c’est trop facile d’aimer quand tout va bien
Having 50 men aggressively camping in your Instagram DMs isn't "pretty privilege" or proof of high value. It’s an illusion of abundance. Forty-eight of those men wouldn't buy you a pack of Panadol if you were shivering with a fever; they are literally just hovering, waiting for a moment of emotional weakness to get free access. Confusing cheap attention for high value is how people end up utterly exhausted and single at 35.
Dopamin ve seratonin paramparça oluyor. Kortizol çok hızlı artış gösteriyor. Vücut bir anda sizin öleceğinizi hissedip adrenalin salgılatıyor. Yani bir anlamda gerçekten ölüyorsunuz. O yüzden bu süreçte profesyonel destek alarak aslında ölmediğinize ikna olmanız çok önemli
Always be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.