I fucking hate living in hawaii sometimes bro. Thereโs literally nothing to do to hang out w friends. Like we got the mall, the beach, and thatโs pretty much fucking it
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin if anything I actually believe that women have it harder than men, but thatโs besides the point. Both go through challenges but women donโt have as much pressure to keep their emotions bottled up as a man would
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin but my point still stands and I donโt think someoneโs political perspective should change anything about how we perceive their mental health. Imagine if someone got SA ed and are reaching out for u for support but ur like โwell u support this over thatโ
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin im not implying that our struggles are lesser, I do actually believe if anything a woman has so much more challenges to face in life than a man would. Iโm just implying that itโs important to let the men who are struggling feel seen
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin people would antagonize women for crying because theyโre crying, not because theyโre a woman AND theyโre crying. Not the same can be said for men
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin saying this as a woman, I donโt like crying in public because I just find it embarrassing, but when I do cry in public people talk to me and my friends ask me if im okay, they give me a hug and reassure me
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin on their friends, if a woman were to feel sad or uncomfortable about something her friends would be more than happy to discuss about it and comfort her, if the same thing happened to a man, his male friends probably wouldnโt care as much
@sunoosurfers @User283623648 @Kaintlse @sllt4chiru @slitforhyunjin I mean if u want a genuine example there are social experiments out there. But generally speaking women have more female friends and men have more male friends, women in general tend to give out compliments and show their love for their friends, while men are usually more rough