Kobiitan

RN 🇳🇬Systemic Anti-Cancer Therapy Nursing.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

If you are on my list and you are going tru a sad state- emotional, psychological...
Trust me, we can talk through it.
Somehow, the world needs u.
Somehow, you are someone's happiness and hope.
Suicide is not an option!!
Talk to me or someone you believe in.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@IbnOnipasantira @egi_nupe 1:4 means a 25% chance in each pregnancy, not that every 4th pregnancy will be affected. Each pregnancy is independent,so it could happen on the 1st, 3rd or any pregnancy or not at all. Some AS AS couples never had any SS child while some had all offsprings affected.

[OLUWAKEMISOLA👑💎 @TheOnlyFarry]

May Allah guide you from the evils of your own sef. You need to retake your shahadah too ma.

[The Yoruba Feminist @YorubaFeminist]

I have three questions:

1. Islam has been present in Yorùbáland for roughly 600 years. Why are we only now having conversations about implementing Sharia law? Does that mean our Muslim ancestors were somehow deficient in their practice of Islam?

2. What aspect of Sharia are you currently unable to observe in Yorùbáland that requires it to be incorporated into the laws of the land? Why are voluntary and independent Sharia panels no longer sufficient?

3. You argue that various countries and northern states have failed to implement Sharia properly, which is why it has infringed upon the rights of unwilling participants. What makes you think Yorùbás would somehow be immune to this same “misapplication” once Sharia is codified into law?

Cc: @IdrisAOni1 @diaryofkeji @Aheesha_x

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@shakiru_onifade @IdrisAOni1 It’s too obvious he doesn’t.

[Muna @Munalozy]

Some people have a big heart, but their detachment game is strong. 🤣

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@AbdullahIs74903 And love yourself more after you marry her lol

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@OnyeanaSalem @AbdullahIs74903 Lol before they even get any inside information about their kids, trust me the whole city already knows🤣 it’s delusional for one man to think he can be adequate for four women.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@AbdullahIs74903 Men are also not permitted zina. Human behaviour and religious rulings are two different things. ‘Not permitted’ is not a proof it doesn’t happen.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@OnyeanaSalem @AbdullahIs74903 Lol most of them are in an open relationship. Their wives get many ‘alashiri’

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

‘She does not do any work’
She deserves that second wife sir.

[Owolabi Abdullah Ishola @AbdullahIs74903]

I have said it countless times here. Allah gives me the capacity; that's what makes me take the decision. My first wife is doing very well. I can boldly say it, my first wife is a millionaire through me and she doesn't do any work, as she just focuses on taking care of the house.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@AbdullahIs74903 I hope she does all in her power to secure her future too. May she not be unfortunate.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

Your theory is the reason many of those older women/ grandmothers ate the fruits of their labour in the mortuary.

[Halimah Ahmed (Tiwal'adire) @ahmedhalimah02]

The other time I spoke about this during the polygamous marriages trend, a lady almost shredded me to pieces because I said it's a loss to the woman to leave a marriage that is devoid of DV and cheating for the sake of her children. How do you explain losing a good man because he practiced what was allowed for him? At the expense of your own children, who is most likely to suffer the most from your emotional decision.

If marrying another wife is his only fault. Then by all means emotionally detach, focus all your energy on your kids and yourself. Use the pain to mold the best version of yourself and your old age will thank you.

The problem is we all suddenly think we are wiser than our mothers and grandmothers, who stayed for the sake of their kids. Those women were 10 steps ahead of us, many of them richer but all their actions are deeply thought out.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@ahmedhalimah02 Your theory is the reason why a lot of the older women ate the fruits of their labour in the mortuary

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@Dearest__deeeee @saratu How will you know she’s a good woman. Will you be dating them along with your husband? Or you will just trust your husband’s instincts. Just curious

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@el_muaddab @_Abou_bakr I’m happy I’m not one of your good number. Atp, we should plaster married on our heads. Ekun le fe sun

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@_Abou_bakr I’d rather be with a single person. Just to clarify, being single doesn’t mean no kids. Simply means not married or in a poly setup. My preference for monogamy is about the structure of the relationship not avoiding children- it’s about preferring a one-man- one wife structure.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@tweetseun @OgbeniAyoola You sabi!

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@YusufAsunmogejo @RAhmedsanni Acceptance is literally the final stage of grief. Someone still posting and deleting emotional tweets is more likely still processing the situation than fully accepting it. Grieving and acceptance are not the same thing.

[Kobiitan @Iwalola_]

@Samuel_Talks @OloriebiBet @maxvayshia Thanks so much