The older i get, the more i realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, and makes space for you in their life, it means something. time is one thing we can never get back, and people don't give it away lightly.
Saya pernah lalui fasa hidup yang rasa sempit.
Seperti orang lain, saya baca surah al-Waqi'ah untuk murah rezeki.
Tapi masa baca surah ini, saya terjumpa tiga soalan yang Allah SWT tanya dan soalan ini jadikan saya rasa tidak selesa untuk menjawabnya.
first, i’d hug her tight, laugh it off, kiss her and let her know she’s still my princess and i love her too no matter what...
later, i’d take her along with me to the repair shop. i’d let her sit beside me while i talk with the mechanic, so she sees how adults handle problems and money
after that, i’d reward her with something she loves maybe a stop for ice cream or a small surprise she’s been wanting, like a new writing pad or drawing tablet.
when we get home, i’d sit her down and calmly show her the repair bill. i’d explain, in simple words, how fixing the car costs money and how money is what daddy uses for school, food and her favorite things... not to scare her, just to help her understand consequences.
then we’d sit together and draw on the new gadget and i’d tell her that if she wants to write daddy messages, love notes or masterpieces, this is the perfect place to do it, not on the car.