i'm sorry no shade to this person, but i could never be in a taste gap relationship... like look at this ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ this is horrifying to me ๐ yes it is that serious
dissapearing on your partner after conflict when they need clarity or closeness is not giving yourself space. it is emotional abuse. the anxiety and abandonment wounds it creates are very real