Jaaaas👽

I'm a mess❌🏳️‍🌈

[Jaaaas👽 @Jaaaasassy]

I am a BISEXUAL, i am attracted to both men and women. I like Christian Grey, i like Anastasia Steele. I am attracted to men with deep voices just as i am attracted to girls with big boobs. And i am proud of my gender for my friends and family accepts me for who i am.

[Jaaaas👽 @Jaaaasassy]

@supnekooo Mee po hehe

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@saiking_k G po

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And when you finally put yourself first. It’s not cruelty it’s discomfort, because your strength reminds them of the freedom they’ve given up. Being hated like this often just means you’re finally living for yourself.🤍

[Jaaaas👽 @Jaaaasassy]

Sometimes people will dislike you, not because you’re wrong, but because you no longer let them control you. They will resent you when you stop bending to their expectations, when you start protecting your heart and saying no.

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The charm–harm cycle is real. It starts with flower, letters, and grand gestures… then flips the moment you don’t meet their expectations. If you’ve ever experienced this shift from charm to harm, you’re not alone.

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The intensity can blur judgment, replace boundaries with dependency, and make control feel like care. What looks like devotion in the beginning often reveals itself as leverage once trust is secured.

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Love bombing preys on people at their most fragile, right after loss, trauma, or upheaval when the need for safety and validation is raw. It floods them with affection, promises, and attention that feel like rescue, not realizing it’s a hook disguised as comfort.

[Jaaaas👽 @Jaaaasassy]

Love-bombing is real and toxic af. There’s no reason someone who just met you should be telling you that you're so amazing, they want to be with you forever and they love you. They know nothing about you. It’s not genuine. It’s toxic and they want you attached to them QUICK.

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You can't truly love someone else unless you're first okay with being alone and enjoy it. Everything else is a response from what happened to you. Love is indeed an ability to let go without hating them in return.

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Exhausting wasn't it? hiding beneath the cloak of your own righteousness, but now i see you as you are.

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And if tomorrow we don’t talk again, please protect what we shared.

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Accountability is so important to me. Nobody's perfect i know right, but pretty please don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit
the match.

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Suicide prevention month and its me preventing me from killing me.

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Things I learnt In the presence of absence...

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Stop considering my friendly gestures as flirtation because I'm not...

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Being outspoken always ends up being misunderstood by others it's because people were not used to hear things that contradicts them.

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The only reason that i was able to say that you're not my equal is that I've know one thing to be sure since the first day we met, YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MY BETTER.

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Don't listen to them, cause what
do they know?!

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Not for the first time, i actually felt pity for these schemers. Who could be every bit as ugly within as they were fair without.

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We did not work sooooo hard accepting and loving our current form and spend years wielding and training our minds just to be intimated by a mere lovely wallpaper.