One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone.
Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.
I hate when people start trying to read between the lines of my very direct, very clear statements. There is no hidden meaning. I said exactly what I meant.
Ngl after a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn't do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth... just basking in your toxicity huh?
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.