Me casaré con un hombre que no desee a otras mujeres. Me casaré con un hombre al que no le tengo miedo cuando está enfadado. Me casaré con un hombre que me ama en voz alta. Me casaré con un hombre detallista y atento. Me casaré con un hombre leal y con valores. O no me casaré, Amén.
I really want my person. Someone who’ll be intentional about me, curious about me, and scared of losing me. Someone who chooses me every single day, without making me question where I stand.
One thing I genuinely cannot stand is an inconsiderate person. How do you move through life without thinking about how your words and actions affect someone else? It really isn’t that difficult to pause, think and consider the impact you might have on another person. Being considerate costs you nothing. Just think before you act.
The best thing you can do for yourself before this year ends is forgive yourself for everything you think you did wrong. Every missed opportunity. Every mistake. Every time you weren't perfect. Let it go. It doesn't get to come with you. Next year starts the second you decide to stop dragging last year behind you. Cut the rope. Walk lighter. You've carried enough. It's time to put it down now.
1. If you speak too much - You will lie.
2.If you think too much - You will be depressed.
3. If you care too much - You will taken for granted.
4. If you trust too much - You will be betrayed.
5. If you work too much - You will lose your life.
Don't be too much.
Because that too much can hurt
You so much.
I want something so fucking good to happen to me that it changes the entire trajectory of my life for once. Just once. I’m tired of constantly having to survive, adjust, and hope for better. I want something to finally work out in my favor. JUST ONCE, GOTDAMN IT.
anytime u decide to play wit somebody in any type of way, remember this : u don't get to choose how, when, or where they play back & everybody ain’t gone play fair, so make sure you ready to stand on everything you did!
As long as your heart is pure and your intentions are genuine, never stress over what you can’t control. What’s meant for you will find you, and what leaves was never yours to keep.
No amount of chemistry, attraction or feelings will be enough if your partner does not understand this one thing, "your home situation". I've been in a relationship for 6 years, and the most important thing I've realized is that no two people grow up in the same house. Maybe you grew up around domestic violence, financial stress and lack of love and affection. Or maybe you grew up around stability, love and people who made you feel safe, both situations shape everything, the way you love, how you think, how you handle conflict and how you see yourself. So when two people from very different backgrounds come together they're not just meeting each other, they're meeting years of beliefs, habits, experiences that they had no idea the other person was carrying. That's why it matters so much to have a partner that doesn't judge you for where you come from, someone who doesn't shame you for your story and realizes that some of the reactions started long before they actually walked into your life. So the right partner won't just try to understand your behavior, but they'll also try to understand the experience shape it.