If he hates his life, He will make yours miserable. If he does not love himself, he will punish you for loving him. A man at war with Himself will never know how to Love a woman in peace.
“She can’t keep a man”. It’s so easy to keep a man ya’ll. I promise. All you gotta do is allow them to lie and cheat in peace, don’t challenge their patterns, and don’t address anything they do that hurts you. You’ll keep them for years and years until they find their next toy.
YOU DON'T REALIZE HOW MUCH SOMEONE HURT YOU UNTIL YOU FINALLY SIT IN SILENCE. no distractions, no texting, no running back... just you and your thoughts replaying everything you ignored. all the times you settled, stayed quiet, and accepted things that never sat right with your spirit. it hit different when you stop making excuses for people and start seeing it for what it really was. but that's where the healing start... when you choose yourself, even if it hurt to let them go.
For any woman who needs to hear this: there are caring men out there, men who will sit and listen when something bothers you, take accountability, apologize, and stay aware of how their behavior affects you. Don’t settle.
A man can leave a 5–10 year relationship, get into a new one, and suddenly start doing all the things his ex asked for. Stop begging and preaching to men, they hear you.
Don’t let them manipulate you girl
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
Accountability is so important to me. Nobody is perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.