@LynPaul6 It’s your complete lack of communication to any family (bar one) and your control over everything which has resulted in him not having dinner with any family for the first time ever. Had you been a decent human other members of the family would have taken him to their homes.
@LynPaul6 @TheatreWindsor Where’s your dad? As his main caretaker you made the decision to isolate family from your dad’s care information (and everything else) and now they find out you didn’t bother to have him at Christmas while they would have had they known. His first Christmas with no family.