The victim of narcissist abuse is usually the one “crashing out” and visually upset. The abuser is the one keeping composure and telling everyone else “See, look at how crazy they are.”
stop being afraid of losing people and remember you are also a great loss too. someone will spend the rest of their lives trying to search for someone with qualities like yours.
Something people don't mention enough is that JK Rowling is a domestic violence survivor. She didn't have a victim mentality. She survived by writing the best-selling children's books of a generation. With that said, she's still a DV survivor, and she inherently understands coercive control and abuse dynamics, and she identifies them in the trans activist movement. It amazes me that she has exercised so much restraint in discussing the depths of the effects of her own witch-hunt in an age where few resist doing so, but she doesn't because she doesn't have a victim complex, and that is why they hate her so much.
when timothee chalamet started dating kylie jenner i was disgusted not bc i thought he was some NY art hoe but bc i automatically lose any respect for a man who willingly involves themselves with that family. same goes to that tree bark jacob elordi, bad bunny & lewis hamilton
1H pluto people vs intimidating every single adult they encountered when they’re a child. I swear every 1H pluto person i’ve met has said that when they were a child, adults were constantly trying to knock them down
@Rosilind420xo people are generally intimidated by 1H pluto people because they carry a lot of power. they see your potential before you do, and don’t want you to reach it because of the intimidation
people are always seeing the worst in scorpio risings & 1H pluto/mars, because their energy can create fear in others as well. as much as they fear their own power/potential, others fear it more. they want to bring scorpio/1H pluto/mars down, so they don’t realize their own power
scorpio risings or pluto in the 1H (even pluto aspecting ascendant) have a POWERFUL aura that others find fascinating… they trigger something deep & hidden within others (good or bad) which causes people to be obsessed w them… their haters HATE them, their lovers LOVE them…