I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
it's raw asf seeing yourself become a new person. You ain't tolerating the same shit, You don't fw people the same, You focused on your goals, You take better care of yourself. Shed that old dead skin & become a better you!!!
once i’ve addressed the situation multiple times & it’s no changed behavior, I stop caring. It’s above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time💯.
If you hate men playing games don't date a gamer. This is abuse. If a guy walked in and and threw my nail polish in the bin because he wanted me to drop everything and pay attention to him, you'd all see that it for what it is.
Dating a woman that can't control her mouth when she's angry is the exact same as a woman dating a man that can't control his hands when he's angry..... just a different form of abuse.... but yaw not ready for that convo huh 🫠
Stay away from people who like to leave you unsettled & when i say unsettled i mean, people who like to walk away while your unhappy, confused, uneasy and anxious. Those who love you care about your peace and how they make you feel. Period point blank
i think my 🚩 is that, I never know how to talk about my feelings. I talk to myself in my head a lot about how I feel & I explain it so well, but getting it to actually come out my mouth is so hard.
To the kids riding their bikes in the middle of the street on the opposite way of J St. y’all are lames. Make better choices next time. That’s how accidents happen.
toxic people will gaslight you & try to make you feel guilty for calling them out on their shit bc they're way too comfortable in their ways. dont fall for
this tactic & dont ever let anyone make you feel guilty for
communicating how you feel.