uhuh before i forget, what causes a corner kick in football? like i couldnt seem to find the pattern on what was causing the plenty corners yesterday😭😭
can someone explain??
You’ve spoken your reality. In the end what you’re saying is;
These female students in jhs and shs can be very bad and spoiled because they lack parental supervision and accountability.
In the end you’re saying access to phone, internet, data and pornography at a young age can give them the boldness to even send nudes to their teachers.
That’s true. Absolutely correct.
What’s also correct;
1. It doesn’t justify you the teacher removing your penis to insert into the vagina of these jhs or shs girls you’re teaching.
2. You admitted what these kids do are foolish but you’re not foolish so you didn’t entertain their nonsense. You’re therefore admitting that any male teacher who’s gone through tertiary training, teacher’s training, earned the certificate, read the code of conduct for GES and still decided to remove his manhood and have sex with a jhs or shs girl is doing a foolish thing despite it being the girls tempting them.
3. Also trust me, if you heard your male colleague slept with a 14 year old jhs bad girl and was imprisoned for ten years for defilement, you’ll say your guy wasn’t wise at all and very foolish to risk his freedom for 30 mins sex with a child.
You people are pushing all sorts of justification for teachers sleeping with students. That’s very weird behavior. You’re saying the only reason you didn’t do some is because you’re a saint and you’re wise but those who did shouldn’t be entirely blamed. That’s weird behavior. This same mentality is what gets you imprisoned in developed countries.
Teenagers 13-19, even scientifically do not have their brains developed to the fullest of capacities.
When they say the age limit is 16 years they’re talking about the minimum requirement. It doesn’t mean you guys in your late twenties and 30s should prey on 16 year olds.
It simply means that a 16 year old girl can do a mistake and invite her 17 year old school friend to her house when their parents are at work and they have sex. For that one they shouldn’t be jailed.
That’s the point. They do have sex. A lot.
It doesn’t justify you the teacher, her supervisor, her corrector, her mentor, her school guardian, the one to show her the right path, having sex with her in the classroom or lab or bringing her to your school bungalow in the night.
Below 18 years a child can’t vote because he or she isn’t mature enough yet to understand the nature and consequences of their actions. You find that sensible right?
So why don’t you guys understand that someone below 18 might not be able to appreciate the full nature and consequences of her action. Why do you ah e to assume that the person is developed and wants it so you as her teacher you’re justified in pumping her in your lab or office or the classroom or school bungalow or wherever.
The teacher should assume full responsibility because the teacher can be imprisoned. That is the law.
1. If you hold the view that a child or a minor cannot consent under any circumstances, it is not an unpopular opinion – it is the right one.
2. If you also hold the view that “consent is vitiated” due to the power dynamics In student/teacher, boss/employee, house-help/employer relationships, etc., you are right.
3. In such circumstances duress can be and often is a factor.
4. Consent when actually given, can also be withdrawn at any time.
5. People must know, understand and appreciate that a miniskirt, twerking or showing cleavage are not invitations to rape.
6. 1 in 5 girls have either been raped or sexually assaulted at some point in their lives. The reason many remain silent or never come forward is the “victim blame” syndrome… What were you wearing? Why did you pass in front of his house knowing that’s how he is? Did you scream? Are you a virgin?These questions are never necessary or constructive especially after the fact that it has already happened.
7. I appreciate people who keep drumming this home anytime such dastardly acts make their way into the public discourse, despite the abusive comments from some men and even women whom I genuinely want to believe don’t know any better.
8. We must continue the education!!! We cannot stop; it will take the efforts of every single one of us to make change this big and meaningful happen and stick.
9. Until we shift the conversation from this and hold the full grown adult perpetrators accountable, we will not see any change!!!!
I see people stressing on the fact that the student could be 18, that’s fine, that takes this from defilement to rape. A student CANNOT consent to sex with a teacher because of the power imbalance. Are y’all okay?