Rihanna’s confidence is gone 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Do you know how much confidence a woman of her means and repute needs to have to repeatedly choose to not have plastic surgery to fit into the mold of what society considers as an ideal body. That is the definition of Confidence with a capital C. Rihanna has shown the world every stage of her life and journey unashamedly. That woman is one of the most confident self assured humans.
The key to living a comfortable life is confrontation and chaos actually. You have to say no. You have to tell people to fck off. You have to be mean in necessary situations.
the thing is, to make art, to fall in love, to do anything really worth doing, you have to risk embarrassment, humiliation, heartbreak. to do anything you have to risk being. and that's being in front of—or more scary, with—others.
At least you showed up authentically. At least you moved with honesty. At least you were direct with how you felt. At least you communicated openly and maturely. At least you tried. At least you never reciprocated their cruel behaviour. Your actions are a reflection of you.
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal, it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.