My therapist once told me: Imagine being bitten by a snake and, instead of treating the bite, you waste time chasing the snake to understand why it bit you and prove you didn't deserve it.
Before you pay lobolo, set a date to the home office. Go sign an Out Of Community of Property with accrual. This means everything you make in the marriage is both yours and will be shared equally. Whether through divorce or death. Secondly, before lobolo, draw up Wills with a financial advisor.
Churches encourage people to marry in community of property however the financial sector has found a loophole in that contract. Your wife’s debt and future debt will be yours too. If they die owing R1 000 000, you now owe R1 000 000. The mother of your husband’s first child can now take you to maintenance court.
You’re in business. Your family and their future are supposed to be protected. COP marriages leaves them vulnerable.
Trevor Noah says fast food companies are now adding a compound called GLP-1 blockers in junk food to make their food more resistant to Ozempic centred weightloss programs 👀👀👀
Netflix watchlist:
1.The Polygamist ✅
2.I Will Find You ✅
3. Fool Me Once ✅
4. Run Away 🔛
5. Stay Close
6. Just One Look
7. The Stranger
8. Gone for Good
9. Missing You
Lekker winter with @NetflixSA 🍿🎬