A man I know lost his job after years of being the family's sole provider.
His wife stood by him financially for months, but the tension kept growing.
One evening during a heated argument, she blurted out, "I regret the day I married you.
"If I had another chance, I'd choose anyone but you."
The fight ended, but the sentence didn't.
She apologized the next morning, insisting she was only angry and didn't mean it.
He forgave her outwardly, but something had shifted.
He stopped sharing his dreams with her, stopped laughing the same way, and the marriage slowly became two people living under one roof.
Anger fades. Some words don't.
When emotions are high, it's better to lose an argument than to say something that can never truly be taken back.
That marriage since then, haven't been the same..
In 2018, my cousin's wife told him that her uncle wanted her to move to the UK to live with him and his family.
My cousin asked her, "What about me and our son? Are we going with you?"
She said no. She would leave their 5-year-old son with her mother to take care of him.
The matter became serious, and both families got involved.
Everyone kept asking her, "How can you abandon your husband and child just to go and stay with your uncle in the UK?"
Out of annoyance, she carelessly said, "But the child is not even his."
They did a DNA test.
Truly, the child my cousin had raised for five years was not his.
A child he had already bought several properties in his name.
And the so-called "uncle" in the UK?
Her ex.
He rented a fully furnished apartment for her where they always met whenever he was in Nigeria. She would leave her matrimonial home, lying to her husband that she was going to stay at her mum's place for a few days.
Trust real African mothers na...
My cousin's mum no gree..
Days after everything came out and she packed her belongings to leave, she became seriously ill.
Till today...
One of my acquaintances made serious money in 2019. Millions. Built a house, bought cars, and got married. They have a 3 year old daughter together.
He went broke in 2024. She has been paying the rent since then. Things changed between them and the quarrels became frequent.
Yesterday, during one of their fights, she said: "This child is not even yours."
She did not stop there.
"I only used the pregnancy to tie you down because you were very rich. You think I like you? Never."
He left the house and has not gone back. He is currently at my place.
She has been calling and texting, saying it was a joke. That she just wanted to say something that would hurt him deeply.
He has not replied her.
Above all, love God.
Men, stay away from a woman who gives other men reasons to lust after her. If she’s constantly seeking validation and refusing to set boundaries,….respect yourself, let her go.
This is your reality as a man dating a content creator. Everything you do will one day be used as content because these women strive by social media validation and attention.
When we tell you men to date preserved women who ain't active on social media, men continue to chase online baddies, forgetting a woman who's shameless enough to post thirst trap is equally shameless enough to disgrace and shame you online.
At the end of the day, a man who dates a woman obsessed with social media will get the humiliation he deserves.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.
Only Andrew Tate understands me. All he said here is the same message I was trying to pass under this post but fools were busy cursing their fathers and mothers. Even when you can clearly read where I condemned rape, they chose to ignore that part and triggered because I'm calling out the foolishness of a woman who killed herself.
When you tell women to protect themselves because we live in a dangerous world, they tell you
"Men shouldn't rape women."
Who doesn't know rape is a crime? Is stealing not also a crime? Don't people still steal?
So because stealing is a crime, you'll walk with a briefcase filled with money at night in a dangerous street expecting people not to rob you because it's a crime?
If you fail to realize that not all humans have sense, conscience and morals, and they'll always be some set of people who'll always go against the law, you'll always meet your doom.
At the end of the day, a woman who fails to protect herself first in a dangerous world will get exactly what she's desperately looking for.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.
Meet Ivana who claims to be in an abusive relationship but never left. Only setting camera to act up and videoing moments she was insulted but never videoed when she was violent towards him, pressured him financially, billed him, cheated on him, gave tunmise infection or bursted his butthole with pipe.
Women will tell you they love you whereas from the beginning of the relationship, they have been keeping records and things they'll use against you tomorrow.
They claim you were toxic, abusive and a woman beater but rather than leave you the very first time, they stay because they're broke women who need your money to survive and live a luxurious lifestyle.
And since women love to be victims, all this while, they keep evidence on you and save it in a folder because they're expecting a day like this to expose you.
This is why as a man, you'll be foolish not to hold something against a woman you're fucking. Be it the chats, her nudes or anything. Just hold something so in case she tries to ruin your reputation online tomorrow, you return the same energy.
If you're going to fuck a shameless whore, you should better have a strong backing in case she chooses to shame you online.
If she wants to go dirty, equally match her energy.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.
They post sexualizing videos of themselves in order to gather online attention knowing how foolish men can be and hope a rich simp with no self esteem dm them and send them free money but what they fail to realize is they're equally attracting dangerous men.
A ritualist who watches this video already knows she's a whore, so if he wants to lure her to harvest her organs, what will he most likely do? Send her a dm, send her some money and promise her more if she travels to meet him wherever state he is.
This whore too will travel 6 hours from her state to another state for hookup and when she's used for rituals and I drag her for a week, foolish Nigerians will tell me
"Respect the dead"
Woman wey no value her life you say make I pity am?
Na God go punish una mama toto.
@the_ceo99 A healthy relationship isn't about rescuing someone it's about two people who are both willing to grow, take responsibility, and build something better together.
In every couples success story, is only the man’s life that mostly change, the woman’s life remains the same, no growth no improvement.
Most foolish men are happy thinking they’ve gotten themselves a real woman.
During the period where the man was growing and improving himself, what was the woman doing?
This is how most men will marry liabilities and think they bag a good woman.
A good woman will also improve herself and grow, not sit down and wait for the man to grow while she’s there fxcking other men in secret.
If you are growing and your woman is just stagnant, breakup with her, she’s not the one for you.
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The unseen family pressure on young Nigerians is crushing — and our neglect of its psychological toll is making matters worse.
Not just for the women, men too.
The ongoing case of Odogwu of Asaba and the late Favour Agbro highlights a deeper crisis: economic desperation + family burdens pushing youth into harm’s way.
Let’s discuss the root. 🧵
Please, if a man cannot afford a push gift, don’t crucify him. What’s the whole push gift madness? At least thank God for a successful delivery. Let him treat you well first; the idea of push gifts is just secondary and it’s not a must.
@Chisomxoxo_ husband that must have made alot of expenses after baby is born. Hospital bills and necessities can't even mention the cost if it's an operation.
So after all these if the husband fails to get push gift then the wife will quarrel him.
Divorce lawyers are going to make a fortune