Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh

Father| Lawyer| Poet| Ghost Writer| Author of The Colours of Life and The Process to Success| Inquisitive Christian| Value giver| Researcher| Thinker.

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

YESTERDAY IS NOT YOUR HOME

Don't make yesterday your home
Like a baby sleeping on soft foam
Yesterday holds only your past
But the die is not cast

Yield your hope to tomorrow
To wipe away yesterday's sorrow
For a broken heart can still mend
And a lonely bend is not the end

Never give up on life
Keep moving; don't give up the drive
So trudge along on this journey
'Cause surely it promises honey

Albeit today's vinegar may be bitter
Yet don't cower or surrender

©Jeffrey I. Eboh, Esq.
22nd August, 2026
All Rights Reserved

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@babybambino Correct

[Babybambino @babybambino]

Nothing relaxes your nervous system like consistent flow of money.

[Finian Enwere 🇳🇬 @Finian89]

Some people, the last time you had something to do with them should actually be the last time you should have any thing to do with them, be it in form of assistance, doing business or even laughing with them. Some people are not good to encounter the second time honestly

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@TadyJerry Completion of two tasks that had taken much of my time recently.

[Plato's Cousin @TadyJerry]

What made you happy today?

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@vikhariiz 😀😀

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

We cannot sincerely love people for who they are except the person loving is God or a parent of the person being loved. There are some traits or factors that endear someone to us and make us to love them. Once those traits or factors go missing, the love is likey to develop wings.

[Vikhari @vikhariiz]

"Love me for who I am"

How does that work?

We can only experience another person through how they affect us.

When someone says, “I love you,” that love is necessarily connected to how you make them feel. You probably bring them security, comfort, ease; you make their burden lighter, you put them on, they have nice moments with you, you make them feel seen.

They admire how you speak, how you think, your outlook on life.

"They" are always involved.

Even your parents love you because you're THEIR child and you make THEM feel like a parent.

The point is not to be all of these things. The point is for someone to experience that 1% side of you that makes them feel good.

And because they're not willing to lose that experience/side of you, they're willing to make sacrifices for you (which is the entire logic — if you'll call it that — behind true love). This happens on the subconscious level.

The irony is, whatever trait you display is still part of who you are. And people will love or hate you based on their experience with the part of you that you manifest before them.

That's why a criminal can be hated by the world and yet loved by his mom.

She doesn't love him because he simply exists. She loves him because of the experience of being his mom.

Therefore, what they call “loving you for you” still involves an internal component: I love you because being connected to you matters to me.

That is also why you cannot simply ask me to love you for who you are. The question you should ask is, what part of you have you shown me?

At the end of the day, my love for you is still about me. Because I can only experience you through me.

[_Kangchi_😎 @_Kangchi_8]

Ss3 in our time Ss3 now 😅

[TRUTH🎖️ @DanielofTruth]

I thought Abuja people were supposed to be advanced

What is this nah 🤣

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

The fact is that we will always meet people who appear to be more intelligent, more beautiful, more devout, more respectful, more financially endowed etc than our spouse. The idea is to be content with who you have, avoid comparison and work on who you have.

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@Adasomma1 It's a good desire and may your dream come to pass.

[Igbo babe😍 @Adasomma1]

I just want a gentleman as my man. Is that too much to ask😔

And see as rain dey waste😭

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@KlasickTheHost You need to taste P.H. boli to understand. I'm not attending the NBA Annual General Conference this year but the last time I was in PH in November last year, I had a good experience with their boli.

[Dolapo Klasick©️ @KlasickTheHost]

So, Port-Harcourt makes better boli than Lagos? We have failed in the west 💔

[Chukwu @Eziahatoka]

your attention is too valuable for people who hurt you on purpose, expect a reaction, then get mad when you stay calm

[ŘėäłĆħäÐ @0neCHAD]

I’m curious, but do those creators who do gadget reviews buy them or they get it free from those brands??? 🤔

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

The fact is that we will always meet people who appear to be more intelligent, more beautiful, more devout, more respectful, more financially endowed etc than our spouse. The idea is to be content with who you have, avoid comparison and work on who you have.

[NYIZOMA @MrBrown_S]

One day, you’ll meet someone who’s more fascinating than your partner, this can happen even when your partner has done you no wrong.

Get ready to fight your own self and be content with what you have.

[NYIZOMA @MrBrown_S]

One day, you’ll meet someone who’s more fascinating than your partner, this can happen even when your partner has done you no wrong.

Get ready to fight your own self and be content with what you have.

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@itdami_ Drug addiction.

[Simplicity @itdami_]

What’s the worst addiction someone can ever have?

[Jeffrey InnoSt Eboh @Jeffosky1]

@Adunniolaide02 Wickedness V. Foolishness.