Bob Weir was different.
When I worked as the Grateful Dead's backstage dishwasher for their personal caterer, you rarely saw the band members, they mostly hung out in the green room. Meanwhile, their friends and family gathered in a large room with tables, chairs, and a buffet. Over on one side, there was a bunch of pinball and arcade games. The kids were mostly in there.
One time during intermission, Bobby was there too, playing the hoops game with the kids. Another time, I was sitting around a table with some folks, and he came up, sat down, and socialized. Come to find out, his family was among them.
That was classic Bobby Weir weirdness, the guy who could belt out "Truckin'" like a rock idol one minute, then turn into the world's most approachable dad the next, just goofing around with kids or chatting with random folks like he was at a backyard barbecue. While Jerry the rest of the band kept more to themselves in the green room, Bobby had this knack for slipping out into the real human chaos, blending right in, and making everyone feel like they were part of his extended family. It was that easygoing, slightly eccentric charm that made him stand out.
Fare thee well, Bobby. 🎸🕊️
If you would like to honor Bobby Weir, consider contributions to 2 orgs he was involved with:
1) Rex Foundation: the Dead created Rex 40 years ago to support causes that make the world better.
2) Sweetwater Music Hall: Bobby’s nonprofit venue
Links are in the next 2 posts.
Hard to process the passing of Bob Weir. This is devastating.
A lot of people helped keep the Grateful Dead flame lit long after Jerry Garcia passed, but nobody more than Bob Weir.
Hard to imagine the Dead's cultural relevancy would be where it is without his efforts. 🌹💀
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Photos via Retro Photo Archive