When you’re raised by an emotionally immature parent, you’re told over and over again how much they did for you, what they sacrificed, and how difficult life was with you.
Self esteem is damaged and the core belief becomes: “I am a burden.”
i cannot vibe w ppl who're like "once the honeymoon phase is over, relationships get boring" like what do you MEAN do you not yearn to have a calm quiet love where you and your partner know each other so well and are entirely domestically comfortable together???