Ive said for years that I think white parents do their kids a better service socially by allowing their children to date with GUIDANCE. My classmates got to attend family dinners, chaperoned hangouts, etc. They werent shamed out of normal emotions like being attracted to someone. It was all shame for me and my friends from our parents. And it left us unprepared for the world.
@aladyvanished i engage with only a few ppl n pots communities and they’re mostly geared toward making life more accessible for you n i love because they get out and do stuff! but it’s hard bc for every 4 of the ppl who can go out n do stuff there’s 1 person bed ridden so it’s harder to start
i love abbey yung so bad and her tips are actually really applicable to black girls too but her skincare and body care and makeup recommendations are my FAV THINGS to hear from her !!!!