@BabesweHunters The fact that you can tell your husband to his face that " respect is earned" shows that you are very rude and disrespectful to him. The way you belittle the spat as a small thing shows you don't value his grievances. Man value respect in their home greatly
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away, pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.
A mark of intelligence is knowing when you don’t have enough evidence to draw a conclusion. Being aware of what you don’t know is important and this explains why dumb people think they know everything