He grew up in Leeds with money and his dad played professional football in England. Money to him is what water is to fish, he knows how to be himself inside it.
The big problem is that people want to be on the receiving end of this kind of treatment in love.
No one wants to initiate or reciprocate - everyone just wants to take.
I would also like to say one of Kim’s superpowers in this world is owning her shit. Her whole life is built on the fact that you cannot embarrass her, “I didn’t pass the bar, I raised it”.
I don’t even do the playful, mean flirting shit. The “roasting”, passive aggressive humor. The jokes laced with cruelty & a little bit of truth behind them. I will either be treated with absolute kindness & softness or we just won’t be together.
Cortisol is high from hating your life, sitting indoors all day, believing you’re too old & too late, not eating fiber, gossiping, caffeine maxxing, no sleep, boozing the weekend away, watching porn then resenting your partner, keeping up with current tragedies, doomscrolling
I visited one of the local Spurs in my area.
As you may know, Spur, often hires foreign nationals.
My Spur has now has an almost new staff and the lady that was my waiter says that they all came from KZN.