Detransitioning isn't the "I told you so!" moment that some would like us to think it is.
When transgender people detransition, they're not saying, "Oops, I made a mistake. I've changed my mind - I'm not transgender any more."
What actually happens, and I've personally seen occur many times in my career, is that trans people try living openly as their preferred gender, and the discrimination, hate, and abuse they receive isn't worth it.
They are still transgender at heart. But life as an openly trans person can be hard.
And after living in a world that shows them nothing but abuse, discrimination, and hate, it's often easier just to go back to living as a trans person in secret.
Detransitioning doesn't mean they're not transgender.
It means that their transition was regretful. And that regret is due to today's society.
Detransition rates should NEVER be used when debating trans rights.
Trans people aren't changing their minds; they're choosing the safest option to survive in a world that might refuse to welcome them.
Such upsetting news about the Sycamore Gap. It's the senselessness of it that gets me – centuries of history brought to an end by some utter prick with a chainsaw. What would compel someone to do this? Unfathomable
@leahoverthinks My partner is Spanish and once I needed to have some treatment in Spain so I had to temporarily register at her GP. I was classed as “migrant without papers” - it was super jarring