It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
Lustful men will never be satisfied and that sounds miserable. Imagine having someone who loves you unconditionally, respects you and is ultimately perfect and you still can't be satisfied. You will always rot. You will always lose. That will forever be your downfall.
We were at a party when one of his old friends the kind who thinks she’s funny said,
“If you ever get tired of her, you know where to find me.”
She smiled like it was harmless.
Before I could even process it, he said, “I don’t entertain disrespect. Especially not toward my wife.”
No laugh. No “she’s joking.” No softening it.
The room shifted.
He didn’t protect my feelings quietly later. He protected my dignity right there.
And I realized something that night loyalty isn’t what someone says in private. It’s what they shut down in public.
when people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. there’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.