I could never be in another relationship where I wasn’t allowed to do something or be allowed to go out and have fun ... I refuse to be put in an unhealthy place again
Big on reciprocation. You reach out, I reach out. You're distant, I'm distant. You're checking for me, I'm checking for you. You're inconsistent, I'm inconsistent. You spoil me, imma spoil you. I don't overplay my part. Nothing more nothing less.
a woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. and no, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.
Lately, I've been including this in my prayer: "If I'm not meant to have it, Lord, please remove the desire from my heart to want it, and help me find peace in its absence."