One thing I can never ever understand is when people (read women ) say I donโt want to leave because what will people say ?
Whoโre the people?! Whatโs their contribution to your life?
Do they give you oxygen?
Emancipate yourself from the shackles of peoples opinion!
I beg you!
If you know any woman scared about having a C-section, tell her about me. Make I encourage her. I have 5 kids, all C-sections ๐๐พ I delivered like the โHebrew womenโ, before you know wetin dey sup the pikin/pikins don come out. Praise God!
God's grace is so good. If it were not for God's grace, I wouldn't be here talking to you right now. My momma would always say "when it gets dark for you, and you can't find your way. Don't forget to pray, don't be ashamed, and don't be too proud." I'll never forget her words...
~ Personally, I believe learning on a job is the best and fastest way to grow in any career field. You can learn a whole lot in a few months of actively working with good people that are ready to be patient enough to teach you.
So many diseases can cause sudden death especially in young people.
Common ones include ;
Heart Attack
Stroke
Bleed in the brain
Pulmonary Embolism(clot in the lungs)
Complicated Heart Disease preexistin
Undiagnosed Hypertension
Bleed in the brain
Irregular Heart Rhythm (Arrhythmias)
Cardiomyopathy (Group of heart disease affecting the heart muscles).
So, itโs important to know your medical history, your family medical history, get yourself checked by your doctor, take your meds regularly and engage in healthy lifestyle-cut down on weight, stop smoking, reduce alcohol, exercise, sleep well, manage stress, etc.
This one says whenever she's annoyed or disappointed, she rants to herself in her car and records it. Then listens to the recording and goes โYeah f**k them!โ she feels okay afterwards. So I should try it. LOL.
I met my wife at 20 and married her at 24. 8 years later my interests are also unrecognisable.
So my wife winds me up about them and we laugh together about it.
No idea why people are making 'till death do us part' vows when really they mean 'so long as it's convenient'
I have heard immature rap songs! But Sarkodieโs Try Me, as a response to @yvonnenelsonghโs book is the tackiest thing Iโve heard.
Plain refusal to grow up! We all make mistakes. Own yours.
This is a Bemba wedding tradition, itโs used to prove that should the woman lose her limbs she can still be able to cook and take care of her husband.
And yes it is a misogynistic practice.
When you meet a woman who communicates very well, youโll have to come correct because she will hold you accountable. Women observe a lot and it reflects in the way they communicate; they will ask you many questions. They want to address everything. You must show your workings.
It's depressing to see our parents getting old while weโre still struggling to be stable in life. The guilt feel is strong when we still can't afford the things our parents want or when we are unable to spend time with them since we are so busy with life.
One of my prayers is that God gives me a kind spouse... kind to the very core.
Because the way this life is already hard eeh, I cannot imagine doing it with someone who isn't kind.