I did not want to be heartbroken again, therefore i did not want to date. I wanted to keep him a secret with no title. Which is what every other male wanted from me. This man said “absolutely not” and it’s been the best thing ever. @JesseShampoo
May you attract the people who call you out on your bullshit and communicate with you when you do something that hurts them or bothers them so you can learn, apologize, change your behavior, and grow.
trying to change the narrative for someone who has shown you their true colors on multiple occasions is not unconditional love, it’s self sabotage. unconditional love sees you through all your lowest moments, but unconditional love also knows when to hold you accountable.
when you realize that you don’t have to chase to attract, abundance flows your way unexpectedly. what you need is taken care of already, what you want is already yours, remain consistent in your process and growth and what is for you will find its way to you eventually.
to whom this may concern;
you’ve worked too hard on yourself to let anything you’ve grown from interrupt you from where you’re going, you’ve done too much inner work to let anyone who isn’t doing the work have power over who you are trying to be.
holding yourself accountable is how you move mountains within your growth, it’s how you find ways to breathe underwater, it’s how you validate your truth with tough love, it’s how you learn to turn your rough edges into softness.
darling,
your current rooting isn’t your final place of growth. don’t let the repetitiveness and monotony of your days fool you into believing that you’re stuck in permanence. there is still much in this current phase that you must learn before the next chapter is ready for you.
when they struggle to understand you they’ll try to simplify you into an idea that makes more sense to them, they’ll try to diminish your magic by poking holes in your wholeness, but you are more than an a opinion, more than an unfounded perception, your light can’t be confined.
you have always been the source,
you have always been the cup,
you have always been the water,
you have always been love,
even if it’s only been you
giving it to you.