As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s hurtful and manipulative, and it’s not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
I remember once tweeting that I would never have a child outside of wedlock— people were dragging me and saying never say never.
Whole time I meant I would abort. ✋🏽