You owe it to yourself to find the root of your pain. No one's coming to save you. You have to save you. You have to believe you deserve a beautiful life, no matter what you've been through.
When we learn to observe the ego instead of becoming it, we gain the power to choose.Ego serves to protect us, but sometimes it just blocks us from listening, loving and understanding. Know when it's actually helping you vs when it's guarding you from the very connection you want
No matter what you do, say or think there will always be people who judge you. That speaks to their character. What you choose to do about it (change yourself to fit in, argue with them, judge them back, create a "divide", do nothing, etc.) says something about your character.
You have to have emotional maturity and boundary thinking when making decisions. When others provoke, overstep, or get into your business, stay calm and respond with clarity to preserve your peace. No argument. No discussion. No escalation. No justification. Just "no" and peace.
Healing makes you antisocial in the best way. Suddenly, you crave peace more than attention. Suddenly, you realize how much noise you used to mistake for love, friendship, or fun.
One day you will understand why your timing was perfect and why things had to happen exactly the way they did. To protect you, to guide you, and to redirect you to where you were always meant to be. Trust the process of your journey, evolution and growth..it's all divine timing.
You're very hard to control when you're confident.
You're very hard to influence when you think clearly.
You're very hard to manipulate when you're emotionally intelligent.
The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to details. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
You're not intimidating. Your light simply unsettles those still hiding in their shadows. Do not dim your light to make others feel comfortable. Stay radiant, true, and aligned with your purpose. You weren't sent here to fit in. You were sent here to shine, challenge and awaken.
Don't let anyone take advantage of your capacity to love. Your capacity to love is one of the rarest and greatest things about you. Anyone who takes advantage of that, is playing themselves because the love you embody can't be found in anyone else but you.