Legally speaking, I’ve handled over 15 divorce matters since the beginning of the year. From what I’ve observed, one of the leading causes is uncommunicated expectations between partners.
Many young people enter marriage with numerous expectations, believing their spouse will simply know what they want without those expectations ever being discussed.
Another trend I have noticed is the rising incidence of infidelity by both spouses.
While every case is different and no single factor explains every marriage breakdown, poor communication and unmet expectations consistently emerge as major contributors.
To also add Men don’t want to give women money.
One of the telling things about our society at our functions is how we behave around food:
1. People loading more food on their plates than they can finish, and without feeling ashamed of the heaps on their plates
2. The fact that people have to be served, because they don’t know how to share limited resources
3. When given a chance for self service, people serving themselves without any regard to those behind them that might not get. Five pieces of chicken are left in the dish, and someone serves himself three of them (with 20 people behind him)
4. People eating more than they need, just because there is free food
5. People acting impatient as if they would die if they took 10 more minutes before their turn to serve (okulookalooka/ okululunkana)
6. Serving the second time (double) before others get anything, and pretending not to have eaten at all
7. Packing food to take home when some people present haven’t got
8. Catering service providers hiding food.
While these habits might seem isolated and only related to food, they ALL vividly manifest themselves when we are in charge of any resources that have to be shared. Think about it. Our biggest problems as a country are around GREED, SELFISHNESS, DISHONESTY, and lack of a sense of SHAME
With heavy hearts, we share the passing of Dr. Marilyn Hickey on April 25, 2026. A faithful servant, she devoted her life to covering the earth with God’s Word. We mourn her loss, yet find peace knowing she is in the Lord’s presence and her ministry will continue for generations.
Am I reading this out wrongly? And its impact to personal land and real estate transactions.
Introduce 6% final withholding tax on non business assets.
This is on top of 3% Stamp duty now?