I stopped letting ppl hurt me just bc we had time and years in or bc we had gone through certain phases of life together. Those things dont solidify a bond. If you dont understand me by now, if you dont respect me by now, if you dont have my best interest by now, you never will
Sometimes you have to sit at that job that you can't stand, or stay at that house you want to move from. You need those seasons or discomfort to help you get to the next level.