“I just sacked my house help because she wore n!ppl3 cover. Before I sacked her, she wears tight mini dresses that she can’t even bend down properly to sweep. It’s not because I have husband in the house; I have gateman, driver, and boys around me.” — Lady
Twitter user sparks debate after claiming many Nigerian dads don’t truly believe in religion and only attend church for appearances 😳
He further alleged that women are the ones who strongly uphold religious practices in many homes — and the timeline is divided 👀
Do you agree or is this just another hot take? 🤔
Women often act like looks are everything and that’s why you see them focusing on fixing their appearance while neglecting their character, attitude, and behavior
My parents had 4 daughters, and none of us have ever been sexually assaulted or raped. My mother was never raped, she married as a virgin. My grandmother was never raped either.
We have lived alongside men, shared spaces with them for extended periods, and they all respected boundaries without incident.
I once traveled alone and took a bike ride around 11pm, and the bike man didn't try to r@ped me. I have also lived alone in a compound as the only woman, and the men around me never threatened or tried to graped me.
This does not mean r@pe doesn't happen, but victims also bear some responsibility in certain situations.
It is interesting that you personally seem to know every woman who has been assaulted, yet you refuse to consider whether their own choices or actions played any role, and you reject any discussion of that.
You also completely ignore false rape accusations, which are quite common, and are even encouraged and celebrated by some of the very people you defend. Yet you expect others to take every claim seriously without question.
Where was your voice when that female teacher was sexually abusing an underage boy? Did you speak up to condemn it? Because if that kind of abuse goes unchallenged, what do you think happens to that boy as he grows up?
The conversation around sexual violence needs to be honest and complete. That means condemning all forms of abuse regardless of who the victim or perpetrator is, acknowledging that false accusations cause real damage, and having an open discussion about personal choices and safety.
Selective outrage helps no one. If you truly want change, you have to be willing to look at the full picture, not just the parts that support your argument.