Some people feed off your energy by provoking you because they need an audience to feel validated. That’s why they antagonize you, their only sense of power comes from the attention of others who enjoy the chaos. Your peace threatens them, and your silence starves them.
Get in the habit of asking straightforward, direct questions. Beating around the bush wastes time. Healthy people speak clearly and concisely so nothing is misunderstood. With honesty and clarity, life is easier to enjoy.