y'all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. i'm not your mother. i'm not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. i'm an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. silence is not a resolution.
Introverts want a quiet life. No noise, no crowds, no parties. Just a life full of meaning. A few close friends, a partner who understands. Deep conversations, exploring life and themselves. Real adventures, a purpose to chase. Simple, peaceful, and true to who they are.
The more you mature, the more you realise you don't want to be around drama, stress, or conflict anymore. You just want a calm, cosy home, good food on your table, and to be surrounded by your favourite people.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love somebody, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings โ you adjust, heal & grow together.