"Hi! Welcome to 'Pup in an App'~
How can I bring a smile to your face today?...Ok so 1 triple digit tribute, hold the DM and a Monster Rehab reimbursement to drink....Got it. Allllllrighty~ Will this be C*shapp or V*nmo?" ♡♡♡
@AllForArelia My goal isnt to move you. I disagreed with what I saw as some unprofessional and toxic views concerning a community I've been in for 8 years and care for passionately due to a love for genuine Domme/Sub relationship building.
@AllForArelia Youre acting as if all Dommes who offer no aftercare wear it like a badge on their profile when you know this isnt the case. And even reading Domme posts can be misleading as you made clear with your comment about marketing to a specific audience by baiting with cruel domme posts
@AllForArelia Yes some "subs" cross boundaries and disrespect the Domme and therefore are not entitled to the Domme giving anymore of their energy.
That doesnt mean it should be any less required from Dommes with subs that don't fall into that category just cause its "online findom"
@AllForArelia Yes there are subs who are not into it and they can decline it. You can also probably pick up on their taste midsession and decide the call on whether breaking the immersion is necessary.
@AllForArelia I just don't like it when I see the talking point of Dommes thinking that finsubs don't deserve aftercare for online play cuz it's just online & so therefore not as intense. When i myself often push myself very hard for the smile of my superiors which feels mentally intense
@AllForArelia I mean yea the getting upset at obvious bait for the abuse loving subs is silly cuz mosylt kink is meant to be an immersive experience away from reality. So doing a whole "erm actually" with that is just them being a total buzz kill. I've had those types of subs myself before.
@AllForArelia Well i mean subs who are disrespectful to the time and boundaries of the Domme are hardly subs at all honestly. So I get not making the full attempt to maintain a healthy dynamic with them.
I realize now that I may have been speaking from an ideal session and D/S connection here