A man told me women need to stop being so independent because men like to feel needed. I said, “Then learn how to be useful instead of asking women to become helpless just to feed your self-esteem.” He left me on read. I hope he heals or not. 😂
Especially when you’re a good person. They love how it feels to be genuinely valued by you until receiving your energy requires responsibility and accountability.
As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for shit, it makes me uncomfortable. That's why I like men who just DO. Don't ask just figure out what i need/ want & DO IT.