Kill Not

Cool, Calm and Calculative. Arsenal.

[Cockimus Fightimus Meridius @CockimusM]

@marriedmn Weaponised neuroticism, that’s the long and the short of it. They process the world through their negative emotions and we process them through logic and critical thinking.

[Kabir Menon @the_psyche_lab]

Men are currently being judged by two entirely contradictory benchmarks. Many modern women want "buffet-style" equality - they pick the parts of tradition they like and the parts of modernism they want, leaving the man to carry the rest.

1. ​The Traditional Provider: He is still expected to pay for the dates, buy the house, bear the primary financial burden, and act as the physical protector.

2. ​The Modern Househusband: Simultaneously, he is expected to do half the cooking, cleaning, and child-rearing, while abandoning any expectation that she fulfill a traditional domestic role.

3. ​The Result: The man is stretched to his absolute limit, expected to be a ruthless earner outside and a soft, domestic equal inside, while the woman gets to redefine her role however she sees fit.

[Kill Not @KeneFelix]

@Orisunmibairemi Do you know what they found out when they finally met the father that made the want to change to his surname?

[Kill Not @KeneFelix]

@Seraphinaf5 A man enters a room with 100 people. Total = 101. 40 left = 61. 10 entered = 71.
People still in the room? 71.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Not in return. As a habit.

All those "for her to this for him, he must have been doing a lot for her" is scam.
"If you spend on me, I'll give you the world" is fraud.

People in love are not reciprocating or counting score. They are just loving as the day goes because it is good for their heart. It is not the "do 10 for me, I do one for you" no sense you people practice in Nigeria.

They are not doing because you did. They are doing because loving you makes them happy.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

-My money is my money. His money is our money.
- I want a man withba provider fetish.
- It is a man's duty to provide. As a woman, I'll contribute my little when I want.
- No dey chook eye for woman money.
- A woman will disrespect you if you ask her to carry financial responsibility
- Unless he doesn't love you, a man that loves you want to provide for you. He doesn't need your money.

It is better to be single or to marry an actual road side mad woman, than any woman with this belief. At least, the mad woman is actually mad. The ones above are choosing to be mad and deliberately obtuse. All of them are openly or covertly telling you that money is more important than their relationship with you. Nobody is more dangerous than a person like that.

If any of the points confuses you, I'll explain.

[Kalu Aja @FinPlanKaluAja1]

Do you know what it means for a foreign ambassador to go to a FEDERAL building and visit a FEDERAL official?

The embassy would have done its homework

1. Is he a fraudster? No, EFCC cleared him

2. Does he have Presidential backing? Yes, his organisation is listed not just in the FEDERAL budget but in the PRESIDENCY allocation in the Federal Budget

3. Is this a case of federal approval, federal budget, or impersonation? No, hehosted seminars in the FEDERAL capital attended by FEDERAL officers

The error made here was the President’s spokesman getting involved. Or now makes this a conspiracy.

Next time you go to the embassy with VALID “official documents” and they are rejected, don't complain

[CHUKS 🍥 @ChuksEricE]

"The only thing a man is looking for in a relationship or marriage is respect. Trust me, it's not intimacy, food, or several other things. Especially African women—that's why Indian and Pakistani women do better than us. You'll see them earning $200,000 while their husbands have no jobs, and they will still buy cars for their husbands with the utmost respect. But with African women, once they make money, the first person they disrespect is their husband."

— Canada-based Nigerian doctor, Zo.

[AMB. SERAH IBRAHIM @TheSerahIbrahim]

This story is actually insane and nobody is talking about it, and the key witness has apparently died in a hotel fire.

Prince Adeniyi Adeyemi accused Femi Gbajabiamila of collecting ₦400 million from him for a ₦600 million deal for the appointment to become DG of Presidential Foreign Intervention Promotion Council (PFIPC), the Chief of Staff was said to have demanded 48% of the agency’s ₦24 billion take-off grant.

Prince Adeyemi said 48% is too much. There was a little disagreement apparently, and on 11 June 2026, Gbajabiamila, in his capacity as Chief of Staff, issued a public statement saying the PFIPC was not an official government body.

Prince Adeyemi wrote a petition to the police and named the middleman who was the witness to everything that happened.

The middle man, who is the key witness to the transaction died a day after that petition.
Prince Adeyemi wrote for the investigation of the man’s mysterious death, and also claimed there are multiple assasinanation attempts on his life.

He also claimed his phone was particularly stolen in one of the attempts and they are refusing to help him track it.

Gbajabiamila claims the company does not exist and that Prince Adeyemi is telling lies, but the 2026 Appropriation Act currently contains a ₦1.3 billion budget allocation for the PFIPC on page 50 and 51.

So how did a “non-existent”agency receive a budget allocation?
The criminality happening under Tinubu is abysmal.
Why is this not making the news?

[Kill Not @KeneFelix]

@deyinkaa_ Who told you all MOGs were anointed by God?

[Onwa_Nnewi @Kene_Nnewi]

Don't marry un-productive woman...No matter how beautiful or endowed she might be... Having big yansh won't put food on the table....Marry a woman that's family oriented...A woman that will come in and start building immidiately with you....

[Kill Not @KeneFelix]

@GunnerPuls Anelka

[Kill Not @KeneFelix]

@damzychillin Di Maria

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

As a man, when the options present & it is time for you to choose a partner, I hope you choose the soft babe.

The one whose consistent demeanor is '🥹'

The one gentle in expression, kind in communication & non combative.

Leave komodo dragons alone for animal control.

[𝑻• @tahyvr_]

@maxvayshia “women fit dey married to you still dey search for husband” 😭😭😭😭😭

[︎ ︎venom @venom1s]

She saw her mother cooking twice and called it slavery.

But,

She didn't see her father

- Coming from small towns and villages to the city
- Working hard to buy land, build a house
- Provide a good education and life for his kids
- Never taking a day off
- Sacrificing all his dreams and his entire life for their well-being.

But no man will call it slavery or oppression.

We see it as our duty. All fathers deserve respect.

[Kill Not @KeneFelix]

@PolySci_NG @chukaobi @jamalaladeen When people discuss football, keep quiet.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

I think it is funny that your wife decides if and when you fuck. Decides how your income is spent while refusing to contribute her income to the home. Gives you curfew ortherwise she locks you out and stay mad at you. Decides if you eat at home or not. Decides if you have guests or not, and when they should leave. Decides who you can be friends with and whom you should cut off. Makes all the rules at home otherwise you won't have "peace." Disrespects and violates you at will.

This is what women call partnership. This is what men call "marry first."

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

One of the most common phrases you hear among married and divorced men is:

“Nothing I ever do is good enough.”

I brings flowers,wrong color.
I plans a date,wrong restaurant.
I helps with the housework,he’s doing it wrong.
I don't help,he’s lazy.
I works longer hours to provide, I am emotionally absent.
I spend more time at home,he’s not ambitious enough.

No matter what choice he makes, it somehow becomes the wrong one. Smh.

Social conditioning plays a role. Modern culture have taught women to focus on what they deserve rather than what they received, which quietly kills gratitude.

Add in social media, comparison culture, and validation addiction, and you create an environment where contentment is almost impossible to sustain. This is why men arent marrying anymore.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

I dont understand why a man is asked to go get married just because he has made money.

"You have a good job. You have a good apartment. You have money. What are you waiting for? Get yourself a woman."

Get a woman to do what? Getting married is not the problem, I have a problem with the monetary qualification. Why do I need money to get married and she comes as she is?

Marriage is a merger not an acquisition. Thus, your financial status is irrelevant. Whatever stage you are in life and you choose to commit, the parties come together to do life together, which means that the bills become one. Both income are family income and the couple put family first by investing both income to the success of the home. Marriage is not the acquiring of somebody to increase your burden and expenses.