Stop dating neurodivergent women if you refuse to understand how deeply inconsistency affects them. Mixed signals, emotional unpredictability, and changing expectations aren’t harmless they can be genuinely distressing. Empathy isn’t optional in a healthy relationship.
Autistic people will clock your emotional state with frightening accuracy and then say the one true thing about it that nobody in the room was ready to hear.
Women yap a lot when they really like you, and I find it so cute. When they’re with you, they just keep talking about the most random things. Then you’re there, smiling, listening, and adding to the gist to make her yap even more. And then she catches herself mid-yap and says, “Am I talking too much?”
No, my baby, you are not. You’re so cute, keep yapping, I’m your listener 😂❤️
It never happens on purpose. You just slowly stop fitting into certain rooms. You ask one too many questions, say things a little too honestly, and people start finding you exhausting without ever meaning to. Then one day you notice the invites dried up. And the strange part is you are not even bothered.