This is free advice from an expensive psychologist.
If you're an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don't make everything a matter of life and death.
If you have a child that can articulate themselves at an early age and exudes confidence , you have an obligation to ensure that the environment you place them in does not break this out of them.. you cannot surround them with adults with poor self esteem and ignorance
Thank you Angie Stone for this classic. This song has allowed me to cry when I feel the need to cry. May cry to this in memory of you and my cousin I buried yesterday