especially with kids, like na you're not doing my kids in the same way you tried to do me in, all that control and low self esteem shit. FUCK that. once your kids are grown, what we allow is something you can never take back.
tolerance always turns into resentment.
you can call it patience, you can call it love but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score and eventually the bill comes due.
“A lady never tells her age” girl just say your age, I promise you it’s not that deep. Let’s stop upholding patriarchal mindsets and feeling like our age is something we should be ashamed about and keep hidden.
Bruh, she’s so real for saying this. Some ppl would rather struggle and figure it out than keep putting up with a dude’s foolishness. There are women who’ll go to a shelter, get back on their feet, and do what they gotta do before letting a man keep using the kids as an outlet…