If we're "together" and | have to ask for it, I don't want it. Relationships in this generation are so corny. Ya'll dont plan sentimental gestures, surprises nothing. Just mediocre sexual relations, bare communication and fake happiness.
there are people that won't water their connection with you but still expect to have access to your fruit whenever it's convenient for them. not all energy that feels familiar is for you to feed.
sometimes even an apology can't fix what happened because the real issue isn't the mistake, it's the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you can't apologize for character..
Boyfriends become husbands and then dads. If you don't see him competent enough for any of those two other positions, you shouldn't be dating them in the first place. Vows and wedding rings don't transform immature men, only God does.
The woman came out of man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on and not from his head to be superior. But from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected. And next to the heart to be loved.
Believe me when I say, it is better to struggle through the years alone, and wait to meet a love that matches your intensity, than to settle for one that undervalues you. Because when you find the right love, it will empower you, rather than overpower you, and compete with you.
I disagree with the notion that women can't handle the truth. Women handle the truth just fine. The problem is that you expect women to handle the truth in a way that still benefits you, at her expense.
The most delusional men are the ones who want to benefit from the effort women put into themselves but don't want to contribute in any real way. They will do anything to convince women requiring it means they're selfish, shallow, unrealistic, etc. Avoid them at all cost.
People lack accountability, then be like,
"You could've just talked to me." No, I couldn't lol. You don't listen. You deflect.
You gaslight. You make me feel like I'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, I stayed silent to protect my peace, not because l didn't want to fix it.
What's hardest for a woman isn't losing him. It's forgiving her self for falling in love w/ his potential, knowing damn well she saw the warning signs & his inconsistency.